F E A T U R E A R T I C L E
Get Smart About
Learning
By Santokh Kathy Humphrys
Once someone asked me what my favorite month of
the year is. As I pondered each month, I immediately disqualified September because of my back to school
memories. Even after many years away from school, I can easily bring to mind the stress, pressure, and
performance anxiety I felt as a student.
In some towns, the Drivers Licensing Office
marks a big 'L' on the license plate or back window of the car to indicate the driver is just learning to drive. My
friend remembers people joking that the 'L' stands for Loser. Though it was a joke, she had a realization that an
actual connection did form inside her; being a Learner was being a Loser. Now that she is taking courses as a part of
a career change, she also wants to change her understanding of what it means to be a
learner.
What concept do you have of learning? Can you name something that you learned in
the last twenty four hours? This beautiful Zen story shines a light on what is required to have the mind of the
student:
Once, a student went to learn from a Master and asked the Master to
teach him. The Teacher began to patiently explain the lesson but the student continuously interrupted to add his own
comments and insights.
Soon, the Master became silent and picked up a tea pot, offering
tea to the student. The student graciously accepted, feeling that because of his wisdom the lesson must be
over. As the Master poured tea into the cup in front of the student, it filled to the brim. The Master kept
pouring the tea and it began to spill over the sides of the cup and flowed over the tray. The student watched in
disbelief, unable to control himself he shouted at the Master, "Can't you see the cup is full, it won't hold any
more. Stop, you're wasting the tea!"
The Master nodded
and explained, "You are like the cup. How can I add any wisdom to your cup when it is already full? You must empty
your cup before you can learn."
When it comes to living, every day we must
empty our cup to see the learning in big things as well as small events and feelings. Instead of going through
the day as if it were the same as yesterday, as if there is nothing new to learn, we must empty our cup each morning,
then fill it with all that the day offers.
With this attitude, you will find yourself excited to get out of bed in the morning. The
idea of being a student will bring a feeling of anticipation, joy and fulfillment. And like my friend who
realized Learning was not for Losers, she changed her thinking and associated "L" with positive feelings like
Laughing, Leaping, Loving, and Living.